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Because I’m not her mom

Because I’m not her mom

“My daughter listens to you more than she does to me.” I hear this often from the mothers of the athletes I coach. Sometimes it’s a confession, sometimes it’s a recognition, other times it’s a question, “is that normal?”  My response, every time is, “Of...
Jealousy Ruined My Potential

Jealousy Ruined My Potential

This post is part 1 of 3 on coping with jealousy within a team. When I was fourteen, I couldn’t see my jealousy. What I saw was unfair, mean, fake, and about a hundred other teenaged emotions that had NOTHING to do with me, and everything to do with her. Ever...
14 Lessons I’ve Learned Since 14

14 Lessons I’ve Learned Since 14

  What is one lesson you’ve learned since you were fourteen? I asked that question to fourteen of my former college teammates. We were once all together on the Iowa State campus, but have now spread back out across the country. At fourteen, these girls were...