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When there is a mean girl on your team

When there is a mean girl on your team

Raise your hand if you have a story about mean girls. Sigh. I can raise both of my hands. Extra high. When I taught fourth grade, I was troubled by how soon this mean girl thing starts. I would conference with some of these girls and be like, “Why are you so mean?...
How to Win Back Your Confidence

How to Win Back Your Confidence

She was stressed. Shoulders tense, brows furrowed. The smile and ever-present ease she brought to practice was missing. Every repetition, every drill was forced, scrutinized, never good enough. She was sobbing. Eyes scanning, hyper-aware of all around her. The control...
Is Your Hard Work Deceiving You?

Is Your Hard Work Deceiving You?

You’ve seen the saying on the back of T-shirts at sporting events. It’s probably on a poster in your locker room. Heck, you may have even retweeted a fancy graphic of the quote: “Hard work will beat talent, if talent doesn’t work hard.” You wear it, you display it,...
Because I’m not her mom

Because I’m not her mom

“My daughter listens to you more than she does to me.” I hear this often from the mothers of the athletes I coach. Sometimes it’s a confession, sometimes it’s a recognition, other times it’s a question, “is that normal?”  My response, every time is, “Of...
The Silent Killer of Confidence

The Silent Killer of Confidence

Confidence. I get asked how to build this in young women an awful lot. Can I be honest? I still struggle with confidence issues myself. Pushing my brown-eyed two-year-old along our usual trail for yet another please-fall-asleep summer evening walk, I had the blues....